Faith and Fashion 360
19 January
toxic
ME?Toxic?
When I'm recording my weekly radio show (insert SHAMELESS plug here: It goes by the same name as this blog, Faithandfashion360 Live on WFNKRadio.com, Sundays from 7pm-9pm. Here's the link.), I usually peruse the social media airwaves and timelines for the things people are talking about, the things they may divided on, as well as the things that just need some JESUS. My sites of choice are typically fashion forward, millenial friendly, etc.
I was scrolling down Instagram the other day and I found a post on one of my sites of choice (one that sometimes I'm almost ashamed to say), and I saw a post that had me pleasantly surprised. TheShadeRoom, the place you love to hate, for its constant celeb post and infinite shade, posted a thought provoking question that forced me into a few minutes of self-awareness. It was so much so that here I am, writing to you about it, and eventually asking you to think about as well;
What is a toxic trait that you possess and would like to work on getting rid of in 2019??
Whoa.
1st of all, I felt personally attacked. They asked assuming that I would even have any! *insert fake disgust*
This question spoke to me in a number of ways and there was a wave of emotions and feelings that swept over me as I thought about an answer.
The fact of the matter is, we all have some things that aren't so great about us. We all have traits that have caused an argument. Things about us that people rightfully don't like. Parts of ourselves that, if we're honest, can stand to hit the trash. It was difficult for me to say out loud, but once I got real with myself, I could name a few.
Moment of transparency: I have a spending problem. I mean a forgo-my-car-note kind of problem. It's something I've realized over the years, especially as I've grown my blogging and fashion brand. There were times where I would even make justifications and excuses about why spending money on the latest shoes were necessary.
"My followers need these looks."
"I have a 10 day grace period."
"How can I grow my brand if I don't invest?"
The problem with this behavior is, we never quite get around
to the issue because we've adopted this really nice pair of rose-colored
glasses (or shoes) that are blocking us from seeing our wrongdoing, and
eventually getting down to the good things we can be. By not acknowledging that
there's a problem...it's almost like it isn't happening?
Romans 5:8
Hebrews 10:24-25
Romans 14:10-19
I was scrolling down Instagram the other day and I found a post on one of my sites of choice (one that sometimes I'm almost ashamed to say), and I saw a post that had me pleasantly surprised. TheShadeRoom, the place you love to hate, for its constant celeb post and infinite shade, posted a thought provoking question that forced me into a few minutes of self-awareness. It was so much so that here I am, writing to you about it, and eventually asking you to think about as well;
What is a toxic trait that you possess and would like to work on getting rid of in 2019??
Whoa.
1st of all, I felt personally attacked. They asked assuming that I would even have any! *insert fake disgust*
This question spoke to me in a number of ways and there was a wave of emotions and feelings that swept over me as I thought about an answer.
The fact of the matter is, we all have some things that aren't so great about us. We all have traits that have caused an argument. Things about us that people rightfully don't like. Parts of ourselves that, if we're honest, can stand to hit the trash. It was difficult for me to say out loud, but once I got real with myself, I could name a few.
Moment of transparency: I have a spending problem. I mean a forgo-my-car-note kind of problem. It's something I've realized over the years, especially as I've grown my blogging and fashion brand. There were times where I would even make justifications and excuses about why spending money on the latest shoes were necessary.
"My followers need these looks."
"I have a 10 day grace period."
"How can I grow my brand if I don't invest?"
We've gotten very used to justifying our nonsense in this
day and age. The world tells us that we are a work in progress, and arms us
with resources to halfway fix ourselves for their monetary gain.
We have become so very good at justifying our bad behavior,
even our sinful behavior. In reality, we can justify just about anything in our
lives to help relieve the pressure of the Holy Spirit bringing things to light
for us to deal with them before Him in humility and self-sacrifice.
The problem with this behavior is, we never quite get around
to the issue because we've adopted this really nice pair of rose-colored
glasses (or shoes) that are blocking us from seeing our wrongdoing, and
eventually getting down to the good things we can be. By not acknowledging that
there's a problem...it's almost like it isn't happening?
I'll share a secret
with you: God loves imperfect people.
That's right I said it. He loves all of your binge-spending,
binge-eating, eye-rolling, nay-saying, negative speaking ways. We all make
mistakes. We will unfortunately (and fortunately depending on how you see i)
continue to do so. But because Jesus died and rose from the grave, every
mistake we will make or ever make has been paid in full. Don't allow ego and
pride keep you from receiving God's love any longer. Don't allow blinders to
keep you from acknowledging your sin and moving forward with God and receive His love and mercy.
I task you today to think about something you could do
differently. I then task you to consistently pray and ask God to remove that
from every part of yourself. Then, I want you to forgive yourself and do
better. Who knows what's on the other side of your awareness? Salvation?Success?
Sounds like a win to me.
Faithfully,
Brieana
Scriptures of Reference
John 3:16Romans 5:8
Hebrews 10:24-25
Romans 14:10-19
